Frequently asked questions about perinatal mental health
We know that no matter how bad you’re feeling, it can be tough to take that first step and ask for help. It’s natural to have lots of questions that you want answering beforehand, so we’ve put together a list of the most common questions we get asked.
If I have a mental health condition will my child or children be taken away?
Please don’t worry, we’re not here to take your children away from you.
Feeling distressed in the perinatal period is common and does not mean that you are a danger to your children. We want to support you to have a happy and healthy pregnancy, and enjoy the experience of motherhood. There are people who have mental health problems; busy being great parents all around us.
If I’m honest about how I’m feeling and what I’ve been experiencing, will people think I’m a bad mum?
No, being honest and open helps us to understand how you’re feeling and provide the most suitable support. We aren’t here to judge you as a person or as a parent, we’re here to help you in any way we can. Even if something you’re experiencing sounds odd or it’s hard to say, we need to know.
I’m being referred to your service, what happens next?
We will contact you to arrange an appointment with us, or advise that our service might not be suitable for you and suggest alternative sources of support.
What about partners or dads?
Mental health problems don’t just impact mums, they affect all of the family. We can offer advice to partners and dads should they want this and signpost to services that would best support their needs.
Is medication safe to take in pregnancy?
Taking medication that helps with your mental health during pregnancy can be a difficult decision to make. We can offer advice and consultation around medication during pregnancy to help ease any concerns you may have around this.
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Page last reviewed: March 12, 2025
Next review due: March 12, 2026
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